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Should You Get Your 8 Year old Child a Cell Phone?

should an 8yr have a cell phoneI am SHOCKED at parents who don’t think. They follow along with the cultural dictates and create in their children stunted psychological growth, entitlement attitudes, and the perpetuation of childish behaviors. And yes it is difficult to see this because 97% of other parents are creating the same thing in 97% of our children. When the majority of us are doing the SAME thing we are like the Blind leading the Blind.

For example, cell phones; when your 8 year old child is begging for a cell phone because the majority of kids in class have one you don’t have to succumb to that request!

Parents tell me, “Well it’s dangerous out there and they aren’t always with me my 8yr old needs to have a cell phone.” As a mother of 5 children who travels (sometimes with my children, sometimes not) I TOTALLY understand this. But when you hand your 8year old a cell phone its not going to be used JUST to stay connected to you. The cell phone is so much more than a phone.

  • It’s a powerful telecommunication tool- to the WORLD!
  • It’s a hand-held computer.
  • It’s a digital distractor.
  • It’s a camera.
  • It’s a video camera

Here are some things to consider before you fall prey to the cultural norms and give your 8 year old a cell phone.

number1If your child is under 11 your child should ALWAYS BE WITH AN ADULT and most adults have cell phones. If your child needs to get in touch with you tell them to use an adult’s phone. I used this method even with my teenager who told me, “EVERYONE has a cell phone” Cool, if everyone has one then it won’t be difficult for you to make a call when you need to.

number2If you MUST get a cell phone for your child consider getting one with simple talk and text abilities. We got one from Walmart 4 years ago and I put $25 on it every month. I can text them and talk to them whenever I want but they can’t surf the internet. Consequently, it’s one less thing I have to monitor.

number3When you give your teenager a phone let your teenager know that it is YOUR phone (since you pay the bills) and therefore you will check it whenever YOU want to.


number4Make them leave it in a different room at night so they aren’t up texting all night (and only God knows what they are watching). The statistics are showing dire consequences on our children’s attention span, sleep patterns and grades due to late night cell phone usage.  Why does an 8 year old need to sleep with the cell phone in her room? Or a 12 yr old? Or a 17 year old?

number5Put every kind of blocker that you can onto the phone for the sake of their innocence. Mothers say to me, “Well I want my child to know that I trust him/her.” Beautiful!

But you don’t give them instant access to porn & perverts via Youtube, Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat etc., in the name of “I trust you”. That stuff is designed to hold the eye!!

Even I, a grown woman am taken in by this stuff! For example: I was looking at a person’s professional profile on Instagram the other day;

“People actually DO THAT? WAIT a minute…WHAT? Hang on! I have to see that again! But HOW…? Wait…show that again? OMG! People do THAT? NO WAY! Wait…”

Yes, it is now indelibly etched into my eyeballs!

Don’t expose your child to the twisted, degenerate, perverted actions of sick, warped, deviant people in the name of, “I trust you.” It’s not fair to your child. Think about it, If grown, morally righteous, married men & women fall prey then expect the same for your 8 yr old child if given a cell phone.

#6If your child can’t keep up with house keys or his book bag or her homework, don’t expect them to keep up with a cell phone. And definitely not the $300 one. Again consider the cheap, simple prepay ones from Wal-Mart.


This is getting longer than I had planned so I’ll stop here. Parent’s please THINK before you follow along with society. What you do with your children influences others and has an influence for generations. We truly are all connected.

It’s not necessary to give an 8 yr old child a cell phone or a 9yr or 10 and probably not even a 13yr. IMHO

A Lesson That I Learned from My Mother-Yvonne Adams

My mother taught me a very important lesson in life: Never give up.

My mom is an amazing inspiration and truly taught me to work hard and that when there is a will, there is a way.

Born in 1929, she dropped out of high school and got married and raised her family. Right before her 47th birthday, she filed for divorce from my abusive father, leaving her a single mother of a 6 year old daughter enrolled in Catholic grammar school and dance classes…and not even a high school diploma.

I remember her calling everyone we knew to let them know she needed a job immediately. I remember her driving a 4am catering truck and wrapping me in a blanket so I could sleep on the front bench seat while she did her run before I needed to get ready for school. She also tended bar at a little local Chicago bar which happened to be down the block from my brother’s house so I could go there after school. Eventually, she started cleaning houses.

She put me through Catholic grammar school and high school and I never missed a dance class. My mom taught me to work hard in my life, which is how I went to college and grad school. I got grants and scholarships in college and grad school and I worked about 30 hours a week through all 4 years of college. My mom bought her first home when she was SIXTY-FOUR years old….all from her hard work. She has always served as my inspiration throughout my life and I love her more than words can ever say.

Yvonne Agnello-Adams is an experienced marketing and international training professional and the President and Owner of YDAA & Associates, Inc.

What’s Your Intention

What are your intentions? It’s the blueprint for your reality.Your intentions become the energy force that will ultimately create your reality. You can strengthen your energy force by what you say, what you write, what you visiualize  and who you connect with. And even though things may not work out PERFECTLY as you have planned your INTENTIONS will always come forth!