You don’t have to defend yourself or email me telling me how wonderful you are as a mother and how much quality time you spend with your children. I’m not judging. We are all doing the best that we can where we are. Including me. So I PROMISE I’m not judging you and I BEG of you not to judge me.
Besides I speak to (literally) 100s of corporate women ever month who are sent to my training to be better managers and executives. They talk to me in private “coaching” sessions and cry to me about how much they love their jobs and yet they are not happy about what’s going on in their homes. I understand their struggle without judgement them and I tell them to do “what you must in order to protect and guide your children”. YOU will be better off for it in the long run.
If you must:
- Quit your job (after you find another).
- Cut down on your hours.
- Ask for a demotion.
- Go to an hourly wage instead of a salary where you are REQUIRED to work until it’s done.
- Ask to be transferred to a different city where the cost of living may be cheaper and life is slower.
- Downsize your living expenses so that you are not feeling powerless over money.
- If you are a single parent, move in with your parents.Teach you children how to respect the grandparents’ house of course, but this can save you hundreds of dollars a month.
- Start a business on the side with the plans to quit your job!
I beg of you, who have been given charge over the Souls of little ones to RAISE YOUR CHILDREN. Stop letting the video games and TV and friends and cell phones take over the minds and hearts of your children because you are too tired or busy. If I see another 6yr with a cell phone I’m going to…I don’t know what I’m going to do!! But how ridiculous is it to put the whole sick, perverted WORLD into the hands of a child? Are these parents even THINKING!? NO they are following!
Mommies you must see yourself as
- A Fighter of your children hearts.
- A Protector of their minds.
- A Preserver of their innocence.
- A Director of their moral Compass.
- An Overseer of their intellect.
- A Companion in their life journey.
- A Warrior of your home.
Yes that’s a lot and that means making some changes. When you view yourself this way-instead of one who has to work to pay the bills; when you see yourself in this light it means you will go against the grain of society that says, “relax, they’ll be okay. stop being a control freak. Anyway, have you seen Shades of Grey? It was such a love story! Did your teenager see it? OMG it was so romantic!”
The world we live in is sick. If you are too busy caught up in DaMan’s business while murmuring, “I owe, I owe so off to work I go.” you are creating problems for your children today that will multiply themselves for you tomorrow. People will say the children are ok and well-adjusted because they’ve learned to sit still in classrooms, bottled up the twisted perverted images they are getting from technology and stifle their need for you because they know you “have to” go to work and you’re “too tired”. And honestly, you can sat that is well-adjusted in a sick society.
Don’t try to create well-adjusted kids. Don’t you try to be “well-adjusted” either. Stop following the crowd and do what YOU know is right to do for the Souls of the ones who have been entrusted to you.
I help women set up a strategy to start a business that allows them to quit their job. If you are ready to get started then contact me. We can do a 40min complimentary coaching session where you can test me out and see if I’m a good fit for you. If so let’s get your business up and going ASAP. But I deal with woman who are serious about moving their life forward for the sake of their children. Contact me. Teishaspeaks400 at gmail.com
Run Your Own Business & Raise Your Own Children!TM