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Separating Yourself From The Pack

What Makes You Different From All the Others?

What Makes You Different From All the Others?

I was once asked what’s the difference between ‘a business coach’ and ‘a business coach for moms’? What makes you different? What separates you from the ‘so many others’ in the your field?”

Glad you asked!

1. I realize that many Mompreneurs have to be handled with cotton gloves. As much as we love business, feel “called” to the business or need to make money with the business, if it occupies too much time away from the children or too much money from the family budget we start backpedaling with Mommy-Guilt. So I encourage, guide, push and motivate as if I’m coxing a powerful and beautiful lioness out of her cage and into the jungle. She can handle the jungle, but often times she doesn’t know it yet. I don’t want her to turn back to the safety and confines of the cage.

2. I email my Mommy clients an outline of our discussions, including the list of goals with the agreed upon dates of completion. This is to help the lioness stay focused. There are many distractions calling her; the cubs back in the cage and many other business ideas in the jungle. My follow-up email is printed and she hang it in her home office to be her visual anchor.

3. I also set my coaching hours to accommodate Mommy business hours. Most Mompreneurs can’t get to the phone during the 9-5 hours. The zoo is too busy. We come out of our cage to explore the JungleBusiness after hours. I talk with many of my clients either early in the a.m. or very late at night. This works well for me too because I also live in a zoo.

I talk with my personal business coach at 3pm twice a month. She is wonderful but not a mom-God bless her childless soul-so I drive down the street and sit in a church parking lot just to have a focused, uninterrupted conversation. How many coaches will schedule 11:00pm as your weekly appointment? Only another professional Mompreneur.

4. I request/demand that my clients come to the meeting as a Business Woman not a Business Mommy. In other words she cannot talk to me while fixing lunch, or doing laundry. The only thing that I will tolerate is breastfeeding her infant. This is to remind her to honor her business. Most mompreneurs are not always able to give her business full attention and many aren’t taken seriously. During our sessions she has someone on the phone who honors her business and honors her as a business woman. This gives her the permission to do the same. In order to hunt successfully in the jungle she has to see herself as the true lioness that she is; this lioness is proud to hold up the mirror.

For the sake of time I won’t go into all of my other “greatness”. If you’re interested in being coached/mentored by a professional who loves building and supporting moms in their home base business, contact me.

What makes you great? What separates you from the “so many others” in your field?

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To Our Mutual Success, Lady T



3 Comments
  • computer services
    December 29, 2010 at 10:36 pm

    I can see you practice what you preach. Great post Lady T.

    Reply
  • Oma
    December 26, 2009 at 2:59 pm

    A round of applause for Lady T! Well said, sister! God bless you, your business and family.

    I agree that we bizmoms need a different approach. Thought I was the only one who lived in a zoo!
    .-= Oma´s last blog ..Achieving My Vision 2010 =-.

    Reply
    • Lady T
      December 26, 2009 at 10:06 pm

      No, you’re not the only one! LOL!

      Reply

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