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3 Reasons a WAHM Should…”Dance” More

come on get with it!

Here "Dance" is code for s_x. You have to think quick when reading!

As I talk to entrepreneur moms around the country I’m discovering that many moms are so completely satisfied w/their home-base businesses, and/or are so completely exhausted from their home base businesses that they are passing up night-time loving w/their husbands.

Ladies, let’s not get crazy?! The Mr.& Mrs Salsa Dance* is the best thing that God created for your holistic health and development.

Now don’t get me wrong, I do understand the natural satisfaction of creativity. Creating a business and seeing it take shape stimulates and satisfies the soul.

I also understand the frustration and determination that the ambitious woman experiences when it’s not taking shape. Gathering her will-power and resolve to “make it happen” is invigorating for the Type A Go-Getter. It’s like a 1 mile run (yeah, 1 mile is all I can do now a days!).  The focused concentration of your body energy mixed with sweat, an elevated heartbeat and heavy breathing is so invigorating and exhausting that you almost don’t need a husband.

Okay, maybe a failing business isn’t that pleasurable, but it does require a focused concentration that is stimulating on several levels.

Another reason that many work at home moms are passing up the night-time loving is because that’s the time that we work on our home base businesses.  When the children are tucked away and the house is quiet many women don’t want to use up that quality time to….do the Sweaty Back Salsa*.

But let me admonish you, for the sake of your business: Ladies you must…do The Horizontal Hustle*!

I have come to this biased opinion based on my research (in the form of asking girlfriends) and my many years of experience (17yrs to the same man!).  So, when I say get jiggy with it, I’m speaking strictly from a scientific perspective.

Why should you…do the Belly Soulja BoyGirl*?

  • Because it helps your business. I cannot tell you how many times I have risen from the darkness, like a energy-sucking vamp, leaving my man in a comatose state, to implement a new idea, write out another chapter in my book, or type up an inspired blog post!
  • Because it helps your husband. My previous post addresses an issue that many women have; their husbands don’t support them. Sometimes it’s because he’s jealous. All of your attention, passion and satisfaction are thrown into your entrepreneurial pursuit. Share the love ladies! Share the loooove!
  • Because it helps you. There is quite a bit of documented research about the calming affects that sex has on women. Unfortunately, I don’t have time to research that right now. Just take my word for it or look it up yourself.  It’s late and I have to go back and check on my comatose husband.

As a professional business coach who has helped MANY moms get their business off the ground,  I’ll tell you what I tell my paying clients (yes, FREE consultation):

Turn off the lights, light a candle and do the Midnight 2 Step*!

*all coded dance names were created by Lady T for your comfort. If while reading this you were confused you should definitely engage in a little…Stomach Salsa.

If you’re interested in hiring Teisha as your business coach or as a speaker for an event just email her! LadyT@TheBusinessCoachforMoms.com

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To Our Mutual Success, Lady T



13 Comments
  • Lisa Marie Mary
    March 4, 2010 at 3:15 pm

    Totally awesome post, Lady T! I love your style and I completely and whole-heartedly agree with your message!! 😀

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  • Paul Simister
    March 3, 2010 at 2:50 am

    Lady T, to save you the wait for the book I found the chapter for T&GR

    http://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm

    This was written more than seventy years ago so it is from the male perspective but I think you’ll find it interesting.
    .-= Paul Simister´s last blog ..Booked Solid University from Michael Port =-.

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    • Lady T
      March 3, 2010 at 1:57 pm

      Thank you sooo much Paul!! I’ll come back here and post my thoughts after i read it….or maybe I’ll do another blog post on the subject…hmmm.

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  • Nicole
    March 2, 2010 at 12:31 pm

    I love it Lady T! This wisdom applies to so many women, not just those with a home based business!

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    • Lady T
      March 2, 2010 at 11:04 pm

      You are absolute correct Nicole, ever married woman can benefit from “dancing”! I just figured I would tie it in to the women who read my blog; you know that whole “niche” thing…

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  • Julie T.
    March 2, 2010 at 10:30 am

    Hey, when you’re holistically happy, you’re much more productive, right?

    Great piece!

    Julie T.
    http://www.jadcc.com
    http://www.jadcc.com/blog
    http://www.yourwrittenbook.com

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  • Paul Simister
    March 2, 2010 at 5:27 am

    Am I allowed to comment as a man?

    I loved the article and all the euphemisms.

    It also takes me back to the Napoleon Hill chapter in Think and Grow Rich about sex transmutation and how you can bring all the life forces together to create real inspiration.

    Ladies, it will also put a big smile on your husbands’ faces.
    .-= Paul Simister´s last blog ..Booked Solid University from Michael Port =-.

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    • Lady T
      March 2, 2010 at 11:01 pm

      Yes Paul you are allowed to comment, thank you for doing so. I have Napoleon Hill’s book on CD and I’ve NEVER heard that chapter! I’ve been cheated!! Now I have to go out and get the book!

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  • Tony R
    March 1, 2010 at 6:11 pm

    I LOVE this article and absolutely agree with both you and Sharron! It is easy to become so engaged with our businesses that we neglect our mates.
    A healthy intimate life releases stress and pent up pressure, areas that cause creative blockage.

    We must keep the home fires burning otherwise we will be seeing the smoke coming from another womans chimney.

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    • Lady T
      March 1, 2010 at 6:44 pm

      ROFLOL! Tony I’ll make sure I give you credit for that line when I use it in my seminars!

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  • Sharron Mays
    March 1, 2010 at 4:06 pm

    ok so this is whats up…..i have, like you teisha, counseled and talked to many women and couples and one thing that seems to be common is that after the kids and businesses and bills start coming the romance dies down. like any other thing you have got to make an effort to keep the sex alive and spicey. like you said, their are major benefits to sex emotional and physical.

    couples owe it to their kids to keep that affection and connection going on a daily basis. the kids need to see you hugging, kissing cuddling. these days you have kids in room on laptop husband in basement on laptop mom in living room on laptop and on top of that they are all IMing each other…..where is the intimacy and communication these days?

    you should never get to busy to have sex with your spouse. your spouse is your number one priority (after God) then kids, then business. and with all these exciting images that men see everywhere you would be a fool to deny your husband his due benevolence regularly. to many temptations out there. now you gotta be on yo job ladies cuz if you don’t someone else will!

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    • Lady T
      March 1, 2010 at 4:20 pm

      Well said, Sharron. Our society is becoming more tolerant of adultery and divorce is just a matter of decision. We’re missing the commitment factor of marriage. I don’t think that having sex w/your husband regularly will eliminate his desire to cheat, but it will eliminate his excuses. So wives owe him is due benevolence and we owe it to ourselves. Besides it just makes the day much more joyful!

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  • Brenda C.
    March 1, 2010 at 2:44 pm

    ROFL! Looooove your creativity!
    .-= Brenda C.´s last blog ..Please participate in the February Poll! =-.

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