As I talk to entrepreneur moms around the country I’m discovering that many moms are so completely satisfied w/their home-base businesses, and/or are so completely exhausted from their home base businesses that they are passing up night-time loving w/their husbands.
Ladies, let’s not get crazy?! The Mr.& Mrs Salsa Dance* is the best thing that God created for your holistic health and development.
Now don’t get me wrong, I do understand the natural satisfaction of creativity. Creating a business and seeing it take shape stimulates and satisfies the soul.
I also understand the frustration and determination that the ambitious woman experiences when it’s not taking shape. Gathering her will-power and resolve to “make it happen” is invigorating for the Type A Go-Getter. It’s like a 1 mile run (yeah, 1 mile is all I can do now a days!). The focused concentration of your body energy mixed with sweat, an elevated heartbeat and heavy breathing is so invigorating and exhausting that you almost don’t need a husband.
Okay, maybe a failing business isn’t that pleasurable, but it does require a focused concentration that is stimulating on several levels.
Another reason that many work at home moms are passing up the night-time loving is because that’s the time that we work on our home base businesses. When the children are tucked away and the house is quiet many women don’t want to use up that quality time to….do the Sweaty Back Salsa*.
But let me admonish you, for the sake of your business: Ladies you must…do The Horizontal Hustle*!
I have come to this biased opinion based on my research (in the form of asking girlfriends) and my many years of experience (17yrs to the same man!). So, when I say get jiggy with it, I’m speaking strictly from a scientific perspective.
Why should you…do the Belly Soulja BoyGirl*?
- Because it helps your business. I cannot tell you how many times I have risen from the darkness, like a energy-sucking vamp, leaving my man in a comatose state, to implement a new idea, write out another chapter in my book, or type up an inspired blog post!
- Because it helps your husband. My previous post addresses an issue that many women have; their husbands don’t support them. Sometimes it’s because he’s jealous. All of your attention, passion and satisfaction are thrown into your entrepreneurial pursuit. Share the love ladies! Share the loooove!
- Because it helps you. There is quite a bit of documented research about the calming affects that sex has on women. Unfortunately, I don’t have time to research that right now. Just take my word for it or look it up yourself. It’s late and I have to go back and check on my comatose husband.
As a professional business coach who has helped MANY moms get their business off the ground, I’ll tell you what I tell my paying clients (yes, FREE consultation):
Turn off the lights, light a candle and do the Midnight 2 Step*!
*all coded dance names were created by Lady T for your comfort. If while reading this you were confused you should definitely engage in a little…Stomach Salsa.